Friday, June 3, 2011

life.

In the midst of working and completing my normal routine of my daily life, I came across an article which actually left me thinking, and I believe all of us should actually give this topic a serious thought. 


The article is talking about the 5 most common regrets people usually have on their deathbed. Oh well, I believe when everyone's life journey has come to an end, or is coming to an end, one will tend to think of whatever things they have not yet done or achieved, or ask themselves, do that really want those things that they have achieved? Have they been true to themselves and live a life they really want and not living a life that people expect them to be, or maybe also, regretting working so hard in life and not spending time enjoying the beautiful sceneries in life. The thoughts may also be, they should have spent more time with family and friends instead of being so money oriented? How about, things that they could actually have done that could actually make their lives a much happier one, but they didnt? Oh well, millions of questions to ponder about. I guess, the ultimate conclusion is "What Do You Really Want?"


Or perhaps some may have lived a life so full of themselves, and the world just revolves around them, and has always neglected the people around them, might just end up thinking that, they could actually bring happiness to alot of people around them and they didn't do it in the end. 


Or maybe, some people might end up thinking that they could have actually told people the truth about their character/personality, and and see that they are improved, and not hiding the truths from them and at the end of the day, they still didnt get the message. Or even, a simple thank you or sorry, that you should have said but didnt say. 


These are the kind of regrets they will bring with them in the afterlife, which is actually quite saddening. Thus I think it is rather important to actually stop for a moment, think and plan out whatever type of person you want to be, and follow your heart. Perhaps this might leave you with no or minimal regrets when your life is approaching its end. Maybe, by being very truthful and sincere to every single one you meet in life, I literally mean every single one, even those that you dislike or hate, and hope for the best for them, so that grudges and complaints ultimately won't be the ones bothering you for the rest of your life. Be contented with what you have, and seek improvements. 


Oh well, what are your views? 


Yes, met up with army friends yesterday for a birthday steamboat dinner, for luke's birthday. Glad to see them still doing well and fine, and we had quite a great catchup. NIce people, here is our photo!

Dada!


A million thanks to W for fetching me home :)!


Chart release!
xH Chart 第22期 公布日期5月20日

本周 上周 歌曲 歌手 最高名次 停榜周数 积分
1 2 空口言[1周榜首] 孙燕姿 1 5 79
2 6 我最亲爱的 张惠妹 2 4 52
3 1 让爱重生[1周榜首] F.I.R. 1 5 72
4 7 想自由 林宥嘉 4 3 37
5 9 我们都别哭 梁文音 5 3 32
6 4 愚人的国度[4周榜首] 孙燕姿 1 9 157
7 14 泪光闪烁 F.I.R. 7 2 21
8 3 晚安 林宥嘉 2 6 87
9 13 只看见你 炎亚纶 9 3 22
10 5 亚特兰提斯[1周榜首] F.I.R. 1 9 134
11 8 好不容易 方大同 4 8 78
12 12 当冬夜渐暖[3周榜首] 孙燕姿 1 13 208
13 10 下一个我 炎亚纶 6 6 57
14 17 花旦 周华健 14 2 11
15 NEW 好的事情 严爵 15 1 6
16 11 都什么时候了 张惠妹 2 7 78
17 15 最重要的决定 范玮琪 7 868
18 18 情人知己 梁文音 3 9 93
19 NEW 左上角的心跳 范玮琪 19 1 2
20 16 一万零一夜 罗志祥 16 4 13
OUT 19 会跳舞的文艺青年 李宇春 14 3 13
OUT 20 不为失恋说抱歉[1周榜首] 梁静茹 1 9 106

That's all! :)

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